nothing is permanent

i was saddened recently with some sports news...

thiery henry, the arsenal superstar forward would be leaving to join barcelona. although this is the worse kept secret for over a year, it was still the worse news for any arsenal supporter

though i'm a die hard newcastle united fan, i have always loved to watch arsene wenger's arsenal. they play beautiful, fast paced attacking football and any neutral fan would agree they are a joy to watch. with henry leading the line, you would always get goals, and most of the times, spectacular goals..

henry has always said he will be a gunner for life, and despite his departure, i believe him. he is an honest, decent bloke and he explained clearly why he left. first viera was sold, then arsenal moved to the new stadium which limited their transfer budget. though henry was made captain, he was too moody to lead the line from the front. then david dein left and arsene will not renew his contract with arsenal after next season. being 29 years old, it was now or never...

i think his departure will be a great loss for arsenal, and from the looks of it, the club is in danger of a free fall. i certainly hope they don't self destruct, i'd watch them play anyday over the other big 3 clubs. it's also a loss to the english premier league, losing one its brightest star, and dare i say their best ever player...

with the spanish league starting in an ungodly hour of 3 am HK/Malaysian time, i won't be able to watch much of henry's live action

the good thing is, barcelona is coming to HK to play a friendly game and they promise all their stars will come! i better get the tickets, this would probably the best chance of seeing him play live...

like i said, nothing is permanent anymore, the only thing that is permanent is... change

take a good look at yourself and your life and reflect

are you being the best that you can be? are you neglecting the people around you? have you said "i love you" to your family and loved ones? don't wait, just do it...



au revoir monsieur henry...

Happy Birthday to myself...

so there it was, my 29th birthday has came and now i'm officially 29 years and 1 day old...

i guess nothing quite makes you feel your age, when you are at the end of your 20's...
though i don't feel old (i have ppl still saying that I look 24, haha), a few gray hair here and there does remind you time waits for no one....

listening to the robert kiyosaki podcast, it suddenly reminded me of my time in melbourne when i picked up his best seller, rich dad poor dad. the book had a profound effect on me, and changed the way i viewed life and money. though i did try to implement some of his teachings, it was more a half hearted attempt to truly go all the way. i have not achieved the financial freedom i strived to achieve, but things will change from today onwards... more on this later...

anyway i had a great housewarming cum birthday party. we had take out pizza, kfc and started juicing! all because i had a kick-ass juicer..

later, we played twister and all sorts of drinking game, which was great fun as well

the party ended around 3 am, and I hope i don't get any complaints as it was crazy loud, hahaha

my thanks to all my frens, old and new, who came to my party with well wishes and gifts. special thanks to grace, law and kara for the lovely PSP!

here are some of the pics:



















the afternoon before the party, met up with a guy to purchase his gym membership. nice kiwi by the name of Mark Wilson, and just knew him over the internet. he is a teacher and after 9 months into his job in hong kong, he is going to travel to africa and then to japan to do some charity work. tom, a colleague told me that his gf took out a huge loan and will spend a good half a year travelling the world. the bank approved her loan as she will be starting work with a very nice remuneration package.

this got me thinking. though its not new, it seems some westerners who were lucky enough will either travel the world right after graduating, or some of them will just take 1 year off their working life and do so.

such an idea will seem unbelievable in an asian society, though i hope the mentality will change. most of us stick to a life laid out by our parents / society, which follows the path of study>work>getmarried>family>retirement>TRAVEL

sound familiar? thats why most travel agencies cater for the retirees to go travel, because that is the only time they get to travel!

personally i feel blessed and thankful of having the chance to travel to many parts of south east asia, australia (where i studied) and parts of europe. now that i'm working in hong kong, i find it easier to relate to other people from different parts of the world and share their ideas. traveling opens your minds and widens your horizon.

so if possible, i would encourage everyone to strive to travel a little bit every year. go to new places, make new friends, learn their culture. don't just be a typical tourist that visits all the must-go's, buy souvenirs and leaves with memory cards full of pictures.

i know its ideal, and i do know that people have hectic schedules that they can't leave their jobs. my advice is this, you are not the whole company/business, don't give yourself so much credit. the company will still be around when you come back in a weeks time, if it's not, you probably should have left earlier, am i right?